11.30.2008

QUACKERS


Lame ducks don’t quack much. There’s no need. We’re not all that interested in what they have to say.

Like ‘em or not, no longer are we magnetized by their personalities or offended by their actions. Any grand pedestal of respect has crumbled, as more and more we embrace the logic of “out with the old and in with the new.”

We’re ready for the “new” – ready for the next guy (pardon me, Hillary and Sarah) – eager to see what he will do… eager to jump on the bandwagon, seeing if he really can change the world. Of course, no one man this side of heaven has the power –save the ego – to change the world (my apologies to Louis Farrakhan and the German paper, “Bild,” both of which have already declared President-Elect Obama as the “Messiah”).

It is time now to band together, with respectful and bipartisan support for Barack Obama. That doesn’t mean we can’t disagree with him. It is simply an acknowledgement that he is the next President for all Americans.

Psst… but have you noticed the supposed lame duck?

The sunset is setting on the Presidency of George W. Bush -- the bold Texan, the media will quickly tell us, who has seemingly become the object of global scorn. Some of us have joined in the mounting disrespect. Yet watch as the sun sets. He has not screamed in self-defense every time a person referred to the “failed administration” and “disgraceful policies” of the past 8 years. (Never mind that every person who repeated that line had something to gain by saying it.) Bush has remained quiet. He has greeted our next President with respect. He has even directed the U.S. Treasury to save half of the recent $700 billion economic bailout package, leaving it to Obama’s discretion and direction.

Bush is also being silently sensible in regard to pardon distribution – an official act of forgiveness that removes civil liabilities stemming from criminal conviction. Presidents customarily distribute pardons right before Christmas and right before leaving office, but not all have been particularly prudent. President Clinton pardoned Marc Rich on his last day in office, arguably hoping none of us would notice. Rich was indicted on charges of tax evasion and illegal trading with Iran, accused of cheating the U.S. government out of $48 million. Note that his wife was a huge donor to Hillary’s Senate campaign and Bill’s Presidential library. Thus, I would conclude that President Clinton was not that wise of a duck.

So I’ve jumped on the bandwagon, thankful the election is over and eager for Obama’s inauguration. But I am also thankful for the classy, gracious exit of President Bush. He is treating the office as it deserves, even without the fanfare or the media support. He leaves us not with a bang… not with a whimper… not even with a quack.


AR

11.27.2008

THANKFUL… ALWAYS


Seven years ago there was a night I wasn’t sure I’d want to remember. Our youngest son, Joshua, laid on a hospital bed in a sedated state, clinging to life. His pulse was weak, his fluids were low, and his oxygen saturation rate – which is supposed to hover in the high ninetieth percentile – had now dropped below 60%. They tried 14 times to administer an IV… in his hands, his feet, and three times in his head. A respirator was employed to keep Josh alive. His infant body seemed only a frail, little shell.

When you come face to face with mortality, it has the potential to change the way you think. Either you become calloused, trying to eliminate all such images in your head – or you become thankful, newly aware that life is a gift and we have an opportunity to live it well. That doesn’t mean life’s always easy or that it will never hurt. It simply means there is much to be thankful for…

For those around us, whom we have an opportunity to enjoy (even the real turkeys in our families)…

For our country, where we can vote, serve, and even respectfully disagree (many countries do not have anything close to that freedom)…

For a God who loves each of us just as we are, giving us opportunity to love Him back.

(On a side note, I wish today, especially in India, those radical terrorist groups would realize that… so iniquitous, they can be…)

And so on this significant holiday, when I ask my boys what they are thankful for, soon after XBOX and fantasy football, they pause and smile, joyfully adding, “Josh’s hugs.” Yes, those mean much.

Joshua miraculously survived that night years ago, so his hugs are indeed meaningful. But his hugs remind me there is always much to be thankful for. Always. So join me in celebration – even if its quiet. Join me in giving thanks. Hug your kids. Hug the people around you. Spend quality time with them. Remember life is a gift. Even when life hurts. Yes, life is a gift even when it hurts. Here’s to living life well.

Wishing you a blessed Thanksgiving and a day of joyfully giving thanks… to you and yours… always.


AR

11.25.2008

ROADBLOCKS


I have some friends who won’t step foot into an organized church. Who can blame them?

After all, it’s members of the organized church who have bombed abortion clinics, flown commercial airliners into the heart of the trade district, and screamed that we’re all going to hell because of the rampant homosexuality in this country. Usually they do so, at some time loudly proclaiming their merciless act to be “in the name of God” somehow. Those aren’t the kind of people I’d want to hang around either.

The problem, though, is that those people get in the way of seeing God rightly. And because some people sadly mishandle the word of truth, others will sadly have trouble acknowledging that truth exists.

So who is God and what does He want from me?

He is the One both George W. Bush and Barack Obama profess to bow down to. He is the One reigning Heisman winner, Tim Tebow, credits on his weekly eye black. And He is the One who cares more about the state of your heart than of any Sunday morning attendance or offering plate participation.

What does He want? He wants me to realize that the state of my heart is what matters most… Act justly. Love mercy. Walk humbly. And love Him back. Don’t let something else – or someone else – get in the way.


AR

11.23.2008

FORGOTTEN BUT NOT GONE


The morning newspaper is full of intriguing insights. Let me offer a small sampling:

“The $25 billion rescue plan, desperately sought…”
“…An attempt to burnish his gangsta rapper persona…”
“Until we get past this malaise and gloom and doom…”
“The potential for conflict will be greater in 2025…”
“As the nation marks the 45th anniversary of the Kennedy assassination…”

Question for you: where’s God? Where’s the reference to Him being in control? … of our need for His help? … or of credit to His creation – as opposed to promotion of our own performance?

The closest I can get to an acknowledgement of someone who is greater than we comes from the sports section: “Freshman point guard saves the day!”

Where is God? Can we not speak of Him? In the name of political correctness, can we not refer to God any more?

The following insight makes me shudder: "But we have forgotten God. We have forgotten the gracious Hand which preserved us in peace, and multiplied and enriched and strengthened us; and we have vainly imagined, in the deceitfulness of our hearts, that all these blessings were produced by some superior wisdom and virtue of our own."

That’s from Abraham Lincoln over 100 years ago. If Lincoln thought God was forgotten then, what does that say about now?

Making me shudder even more is the realization that in the course of history, every nation that has forgotten God has at some time ceased to exist.

With the current, serious societal activity, this week of Thanksgiving, I know what I need to remember. I know what I need to teach my kids. And I know who I need to start thanking first…


AR

11.20.2008

BELIEVE ME: IT COUNTS


Yesterday, stuck on the back page of my sports section, was a great picture of current baseball free agent, Ken Griffey Jr., and Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice. Junior was just named America’s newest Public Diplomacy Envoy at the State Department in Washington.

How does a baseball player – even one with 611 home runs – become an American diplomat? How about a figure skater and an actress, too? … as Griffey joins Michelle Kwan and Fran Drescher, in addition to Cal Ripken Jr. as envoys.

It comes down to one thing: character.

Character counts. The most important attribute of any public servant. The thing we should look at first in whom we elect, celebrate, and promote.

It’s the reason neither Ted Stevens (R) or Al Franken (D) belong in the US Senate. It’s why we had trouble when Barry Bonds hit home run number 756.

It’s why we cheered when Tony Dungy won the Super Bowl and when Mary Lou Retton won the all-around.

It’s also why we listen every time Billy Graham speaks.

What you do on and off the field matters. Just ask Griffey Jr.’s new team.


AR

11.18.2008

BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH


I’ve noticed an unhealthy pattern between my 11 and 9 year old boys. Every now and then, usually when low on sleep and thus on patience, a passionate, verbal argument begins to ensue. Gradually yet swiftly, the volume increases, the respect decreases, until one child will actually put their hands to their ears and declare, “I’m not listening! …blah, blah, blah, blah.”

And to think that only kids do that.

Isn’t that what we as adults do – especially when we feel passionate about an issue? Don’t we justify not listening in the name of righteousness? Perhaps self-righteousness?

How about on abortion, for example? (If you know me, you know I don’t believe in such a thing as a “taboo topic.”)

Both sides are passionate about their opinions on this issue. Both have valid reasons for their opinions. But I’m having trouble listening to either of you because you’re so busy shouting at me.

…blah, blah, blah, blah…

Democrats, quit trying to convince me that the baby isn’t alive. I’ve heard that beautiful, miraculous heartbeat…

Republicans, quit ignoring that for some people, especially in the poorer communities, this is an agonizing decision. You need to empathize better…

We need to find a way to talk about abortion in our country. We can start by agreeing that the practice should be rare. Let’s take our hands off our ears and start listening to one another. I know of no one’s opinion which has changed because someone of an opposing viewpoint upped their volume.

It’s time for an end to the blah, blah, blah, blah.


AR

11.17.2008

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11.16.2008

CARE TO DANCE?

One of the more recent, entertaining examples of fictional character development is Fiyero, the cavalier Vinkus prince from the hit musical, “Wicked.” Initially, Fiyero’s primary ambitions include avoiding stress, keeping cool, remaining thoughtless, and “dancing through life.” You might say his “bar” isn’t set very high.

As the musical progresses, however, Fiyero is moved by the purpose reflected in a fellow student’s life. He is astoundingly attracted to a unique young lady, as he becomes transformed by her example of passionate, purposeful living. He slowly realizes that a beautiful life means so much more than one that remains unexamined.

It makes me think of the NY Times best seller, The Purpose Driven Life… a book in which the very first sentence reads, “It’s not about you.”

So if it’s not about me, what’s it about? Why am I here? What is my purpose? What are we living for?

Are you dancing through life like Fiyero? … or are you cognizant of what God placed you on this Earth to do?

The answer to this question will help you determine how high you have set your bar.


AR

11.13.2008

BAIL OUT WHO? WHAT?


According to http://www.dictionary.com/:

bail out (verb phrase)
1. to make a parachute jump from an airplane.
2. to relieve or assist (a person, company, etc.) in an emergency situation, esp. a financial crisis.
3. to give up on or abandon something, as to evade a responsibility.

Call me a compassionate capitalist… meaning I believe in an economic system which favors private ownership over a cooperative or state-owned means of wealth. The compassionate part of that means I am sensitive to when said system has a specific, individualized, negative affect.

But am I compassionate if I negate personal, financial responsibility? What would we teach our children if we didn’t show them how to manage their money? …if we simply bailed them out every time they spent foolishly? …when they made a poor choice? …if we spared them the consequences? (…consequences that often teach great lessons, by the way…)

While it may seem compassionate for our government to bail out private enterprise, there are two reasons I am hesitant: (1) I question whether or not we are negating the enterprises’ personal responsibility. And (2) – the more significant of the two – we don’t have the money. Listen closely, friends. Our national debt now approaches 10 trillion dollars. Let me say that again. 10 TRILLION DOLLARS. Not only do our legislators do nothing to pay down this debt, but they also continue to advocate unbalanced budgets that propose massive amounts of additional new spending.

In the name of supporting good program after good program – in the name of avoiding the politically unpopular – in the name of bail outs and arguably, in the ultimate name of re-election, our government has been ignoring their own financial responsibility. If we don’t soon abandon this practice, the current economic crumbling will look miniscule compared to the future collapse.

Excuse me for a moment… I’m going to see if I can find some compassionate soul to take care of my Christmas bills…


AR

11.11.2008

FOUR MORE YEARS




In four years, what will they say about him?

As I watched the two men, one with past purpose and one with future promise, stroll warmly together down the White House colonnade, I couldn’t help but ponder what our nation will say of Barack Obama in four more years…

Will his promise of change result in productive policy?

Will he still be the media’s darling?

Will his proximity to the pulse of our nation alter his current perspective?

Will he be a bipartisan leader – representing more than those on the fringe right or left?

Will those on the fringe be pleased?

Will his sweet, young girls mature too quickly, or will they remain a contagious symbol of joy?

Will his wife be a gracious, global ambassador, or will she have her own domestic agenda?

Will they refer to all of his policies as heralding from a failed administration?

And will he be treated with the respect that all Presidents deserve?

My hope is that over the course of his first term, not only will Obama be respected, but he, too, will have a far greater respect for the others who have walked that colonnade. We miss that. Our perspectives are too polarized. So here’s to those who have led our nation well… men who have led from the most coveted, earthly office… who have left self ambition behind.

I hope that’s what they’ll say.

AR

11.09.2008

FOR DONALD

When he walked into my office, something drew me to him instantly. “No, you have to fill it out here,” I said, which prompted him to drop the application, awkwardly apologize, and timidly utter, “I come back later.” I knew then that if I was going to take advantage of affirming one who probably received little, it was time to put my things down and forget about the next line on my to-do list.

It was against company policy to fill out the application for Donald, but on that busy late afternoon, together we sat for over an hour, as I helped him spell out his address, education, and minimal experience. There was little for this 50 some year old man to write; however, Donald didn’t know how to write. I watched as he misspelled his own name.

Hoping our company chef would feel like he “owed me one,” I played to his compassionate side and convinced him to hire Donald, a man most likely, that current day culture prefers to ignore. Thus began my sweet relationship with this sensitive, articulate man.

He wasn’t articulate like you and I think of. He didn’t use poetic words nor those with phonetically pleasing syllables. But when he walked down the hall to set up the employee lunchroom each day, he had something to say to all, usually with a warm, welcoming smile. I would hear him singing James Brown in the hallway – as he’d razz me for not knowing the words. I would hear him laugh like a little boy. I’d also hear him cry some days, when those of seemingly greater intelligence teased him for who he was… or rather, who he was not.

Donald was a mentally disabled adult… a short, plump, balding African-American man, with a little gray fuzz just above his ears. I saw so much more than that. When he’d see me in the hallway, he’d say, “Hello, Miss Ann! You not like other people. You not like them. You different.” I’m not quite sure what he saw in me; in fact, it blows me away to think of how two people from polar demographics could befriend one another so sweetly. But I would hope it has something to do with the fact that I tried to simply love him where he was at. I wanted him to know I valued him just as he was, and I felt no wiser nor better than he.

For wisdom and intelligence have nothing to do with one another. I’ve known some really smart people who weren’t very wise at all. People who would never sit down at a table with those of a different demographic. People who judge. People who are quick to utter truth – but neglect to offer grace. There is no wisdom in that.

Thank God for my time with Donald. No doubt he taught me much.

AR

11.06.2008

THIS IS STILL THE DAY...

“Are you ready for some football?!”

Previously this year, there was a heated debate evolving among friends in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Who should assume the quarterback reins of our beloved Packers?

It was a passionate debate… do we go with the old or the new? The trusted experience or the fresh inspiration? Truth told – when you threw the reporters out of the room – it was obvious there were reasonable, objective arguments on both sides of the playing field.

Yet when the youthful Aaron Rodgers triumphed over Brett Favre last summer, Favre fans had to wrestle with the question: “What should I do now?”

“…do I support my team even though I thought the other guy would be a more effective leader? I have a choice: either I renounce my status and root on those evil Vikings and Bears (the Lions don’t count much this year) – or I remember that I’m a Packers’ fan first, and in order for our team to near any level of greatness, I need to respect the QB, whether I previously cheered him on or not.”

Those who favored Rodgers also learned a lesson. After all, if they didn’t graciously grasp the reality that Favre’s loyal service had made Green Bay a better place to be, they missed an opportunity for growth; they fostered arrogance instead of wisdom. Let none of us be arrogant. No quarterback is perfect; even the quarterback of the future will throw his share of interceptions (He will even do so on national TV!). Hence, I pray our QB has the grace and humility to handle those moments wisely.

It matters not whether I preferred Rodgers or Favre. I’ve never been too fond of wearing green, and that gold has always been a little too bright for me. But I will tell you that I appreciate what Favre did in Green Bay; his leadership spurred on an era of integrity, creativity, and success on the field. I also look forward to what Rodgers will do, even if he employs a completely different offensive scheme. Let me be clear; there are a few calls in Rodgers’ playbook that concern me greatly, and I, for one, will be watching closely. But I believe Aaron Rodgers will be a better quarterback because of what he learned from Brett Favre.

So go Packers! Rumor has it you’re America’s team.

AR

11.04.2008

THIS IS THE DAY...

TOP 10 THINGS I LEARNED FROM THIS ELECTION CYCLE:

10. People will do anything to win.

9. Tina Fey is a comedic genius.

8. Limericks using “Obama” can be fun (“Homearama”… yo momma…).

7. Jesus would not be a Democrat OR a Republican.

6. Objectivity in the media cannot be assumed.

5. No party has a true grasp of all that encompasses social justice.

4. “Feminism” does not mean “in support of all women.”

3. People need to pray for our nation more than once every 4 years.

2. Most people don’t know how to respect those with whom they disagree.

And for this playful artist…

1. Both Presidential and ‘Veep’ candidates will be fun to caricature over the next 4 years!


As this election cycle closes, I find myself thankful that it’s over, weary of what it entailed, and hopeful for what is to come – and that’s regardless of whom I voted for. Two years for a campaign is too much… too much money, too much mudslinging, and too much manipulation. Each campaign attempts to manipulate us by promoting desired images, but not necessarily reality. Last I could tell, neither the Messiah, the anti-Christ, nor “George W” was running; neither Biden nor Palin was an idiot; and no administration has been a complete failure.

Let’s move ahead, being respectful of our leaders. Let’s get rid of using the word “hate.” And let’s engage in respectful dialogue in this country, remembering above all else that we pledge ourselves to be one nation under God, with liberty and justice for all.

Time to run… need to find that sketch pad…

AR